chemistry and instinct
October 14th, 2008 by shinzu
I think there are times in our life where we meet someone else where the chemistry is dead on. You know you like the other person, and you have a pretty strong feeling that the other person likes you back also.
However within those moments of chemistry, there may be situations where for whatever reason, things weren’t meant to be. Either the person is unavailable, or some other complex scenario.
But sometimes pursuing what wasn’t meant to be can have dire consequences. It basically can put yourself in a situation where your morals are being stretched where you are considering situations you never thought you would ever have been put in.
It is hard because I think rarely in life do we run into this situation where we meet someone this special. And typically we would jump straight into the water to pursue things.
Unfortunately its hardest when we realize this and we are forced to pass on the option and move on. Because in all situations our instinct really does act as a fundamental guide of what we should or should not do.
Chemistry and attraction is a powerful force that can overcome that practical thinking mind. Great leaders have fallen through situations like this.
At the end of the day it is our instinct, and what inside we truly know what is right to do which tempers this situation.
Its not easy.. but there are times we realize we have to move on….